AH WHY ISN'T EVERYONE LIKE CEDIf you get your character into a fight you must be prepared to have them die.
Very simple. If the Earthspawn initiated the fight, or didn't run away, etc, then there's a realistic chance they could die.
Perhaps we need one simple rule:
You can't try to damage other characters unless you are prepared to have yours damaged too.
... I've stopped asking people, half of the time, for their permission before severing limbs because a lot of people don't seem to realize that actions have consequences.
On that note, people really should fight less. (I sound like a bit of a hypocrite here, but Basil's dead and Nwalme no longer fights unless provoked or stopping another. ) With a lack of guards, I've started making Nwalme a vigilante and crippling people who won't stop fighting each other in front of the Mead....