Ban Appeal (attempt two...) [Resolved - Unbanned]

[RexJen]

Then I'm afraid that you'll have to try again in the future. If I can't make you understand that this is not something that you should even joke badly about, I'm not sure that you're appropriate for this server.

I do understand, I understand perfectly that rape is serious, it is not something to joke about.
I have poured my heart and soul into every countless hour that I have given here. I feel cheated that you would deny me simply because of bad humour.

you had been warned in the past about this, and still your behavior doesn't change.

It has changed, it is changing, and this change is on going.
I know I am not perfect, no one is. I am trying my upmost to change the things that lead to these situations.

This is not something you joke about. It should never even be an option.

If I knew that the staff were so strong of this opinion I would never have said this light hearted and well meaning joke to a friend over local chat.

What you OOCly described is rape.

Let's see what I described shall we?
Two drunk people making a mistake and a woman deciding against her better judgement to sleep with another man.
I do not see either of these as rape.
What came out in the end after all the hype went around was this
A manipulative sociopath gets a young girl drunk and sleeps with her and a man manipulating a woman into sleeping with him.
If you look at the two then you can see that what happened and what was said to have happened are different things.
And also, I was perfectly happy to void the rp when I was told that it was not appropriate.

 

[SallyPirate]

93466894 2015-02-07 02:38:42 RexTom Chat Altera 11030.5,74.9,5513.5 (He did pretty much force himself upon her, although she did flirt with him drunkenly xD)

93467138 2015-02-07 02:40:57 RexTom Command Altera 11030.5,74.9,5513.5 /ch l
93467185 2015-02-07 02:41:20 RexTom Chat Altera 11030.5,74.9,5513.5 Because, you know, if this was real life Jenny would be going "rape!" and wanting to put Damon's hea
93467187 2015-02-07 02:41:22 RexTom Chat Altera 11030.5,74.9,5513.5 d on a spike
93467206 2015-02-07 02:41:32 RexTom Chat Altera 11030.5,74.9,5513.5 so yeah

 

[RexJen]

93466894 2015-02-07 02:38:42 RexTom Chat Altera 11030.5,74.9,5513.5 (He did pretty much force himself upon her, although she did flirt with him drunkenly xD)

He was pretty forward with her and I do admit that at the time I was confusing ic with ooc.
But when it actually happened she was going "lets do this!"
Putting his head on a spike was a bit over the top

In the end, I am so very sorry that it escalated to this. I wish there was some way to just make it it all never happen

 

[SallyPirate]

I can't help but notice a lot of contradictions with your appeals. So here we go..

I do understand, I understand perfectly that rape is serious, it is not something to joke about.
I have poured my heart and soul into every countless hour that I have given here. I feel cheated that you would deny me simply because of bad humour.

It has changed, it is changing, and this change is on going.
I know I am not perfect, no one is. I am trying my upmost to change the things that lead to these situations.

If I knew that the staff were so strong of this opinion I would never have said this light hearted and well meaning joke to a friend over local chat.

Basically, you keep on implying that you were joking around, and that's what myself and Som are trying to explain is the BAD part of this. I made sure to reread the RP to make sure I read it right, and yes, it was the afterwards storytelling that got you in the most trouble.

But it was also some prior unrelated behavior that were cause for your ban as well. You often talking in OOC about being suicidal and suicide and of course:

This:
90452066 2015-01-23 01:12:06 RexTom Chat Altera 11020.8,69,5587.6 hail!
90452098 2015-01-23 01:12:27 RexTom Chat Altera 10996,69,5628.4 Hail Hitl- Hydra!

This:
90452685 2015-01-23 01:20:09 RexTom Chat Altera 5219.6,64,10809.7 sometimes
90452688 2015-01-23 01:20:17 RexTom Chat Altera 5218.8,64,10811.7 I get this overwhelming urge
90452697 2015-01-23 01:20:27 RexTom Chat Altera 5217.7,64,10813.9 to rip people apart and drink their blood
90452705 2015-01-23 01:20:48 RexTom Chat Altera 5216.8,70.5,10817.9 and then after
90452708 2015-01-23 01:20:56 RexTom Chat Altera 5216.3,70,10818.5 I want to drive a knife through my heart
90452719 2015-01-23 01:21:09 RexTom Chat Altera 5213.4,74,10816.8 and then
90452724 2015-01-23 01:21:14 RexTom Chat Altera 5217.6,74,10815.3 I cry in the corner

And this:
90453109 2015-01-23 01:24:50 RexTom Chat Altera 10941.9,69,5625.4 No I didn't
90453124 2015-01-23 01:24:55 RexTom Chat Altera 10941.9,69,5625.4 this text is lying
90453151 2015-01-23 01:25:06 RexTom Chat Altera 10941.9,69,5625.4 I didn't starve to death
90453162 2015-01-23 01:25:11 RexTom Chat Altera 10941.1,69.5,5621.5 so insensitive
90453188 2015-01-23 01:25:20 RexTom Chat Altera 10941.1,69,5618.3 I committed suicide by not eating
90453191 2015-01-23 01:25:21 RexTom Chat Altera 10941.8,69,5618.5 gosh
90453198 2015-01-23 01:25:25 RexTom Chat Altera 10943.2,69.5,5620.9 so insensitive
90453267 2015-01-23 01:26:04 RexTom Chat Altera 10937.7,69,5610.3 meh
90453295 2015-01-23 01:26:17 RexTom Chat Altera 10933.7,63.5,5639.7 lets all jump into the ocean and drown

 

[RexJen]

I had no idea that it was a problem.
Wow, this is eye opening

 

[RexJen]

I had no idea that I was being so... depressive...
in the future I will refrain from doing so.
also I agree, the jokes should stop.

 

[RexJen]

Response? Its been almost a week...

 

[SallyPirate]

Currently I'm unable to take this appeal until tomorrow afternoon-ish. However, there is one thing I would like you to agree to before you get unbanned.

If I'm frank (but I'm Sally..), getting your character pregnant so frequently became.. creepy. If you're unbanned, I would like a few changes to the following:

1. Less pregnancies (I'd recommend not /roll-ing for pregnant, and if you do, a 20 should be pregnant, not 15+)
2. No more suicidal/inappropriate content on the server/forums

I can answer questions (Probly tomorrow if I can, most likely in the afternoon) if yer have any. That's all I can think to mention.

 

[RexJen]

1. Less pregnancies (I'd recommend not /roll-ing for pregnant, and if you do, a 20 should be pregnant, not 15+)
2. No more suicidal/inappropriate content on the server/forums

Ill make sure to keep this in mind

 

[SallyPirate]

Alrighty, I'll unban you, just as a default warning, a repeat of the behaviour that got you banned will get you banned a lot faster, so I would really appreciate it if it doesn't happen again.

Edit: Bans are being weird, this'll take a while

 

[SallyPirate]

EDIT: Unbanned, the server couldn't comprehend that you changed your username