Anyway, in your first statement you said
And as I have said, being killed at random with no possible provocation, is not fun. It really isn't.
If I spoke to someone and triggered them, made them angry and they attacked my char afterwards on her way out of the shop, then I would expect that and that's fine.
But if I didn't speak to them (Assuming I'm on Amaryllis Quinn, the overly friendly baker.) and they simply strut right into the bakery and jump over the counter and stick a sword through her, that doesn't tell me anything, that's a completely unprovoked attack and something I shouldn't have to worry about every time I login. I should not have to hire guards or learn swordfighting, my character is a BAKER, for IMMERSION. And if people wanna kill my char and therefore kill my immersion and the immersion I create, they can welcome themselves to my ban hammer.