Let's get this out of the way now: I'm going to do my best to not be a cunt.
Mutual respect is important, and I'd appreciate if I received the same faith. The people currently with both Marr and Lavoyard don't like each other. It's no secret, there's no point pretending they do. Yes, I've been affiliated with the Black Banners. If they do receive any favouritism IC, it'll be because they're currently my
only loyal vassals. I'm not going to be a fool and imply that we can fix OOC bonds and get along perfectly. I don't think it will happen. However,
you can dislike someone but still show them respect. That's what I intend to do, and I hope that's what everyone else intends to do. This is a game.
I think we can, on both sides, work to improve how we treat people we dislike. I'm not blaming the other side - members of my side have been shits too, and I'll be attempting to deal with that.
Oh, and most importantly -