Just a little side-note.
During my open-Engems stage, the thing I loved most was IC hate. It created conflict IC that worked out wonderfully, but then some of that slipped into OOC which just utterly killed the enjoyment. The first experience I had with it made me quite upset, and I ended up feeling disgusted with several people. Engems had a speech in PS, one person threw a temper tantrum that the Silver Guards ( don't even know if that's what they were called then ) weren't climbing up steps guarded by soldiers to beat us up.
Yadda yadda ya, OOC hate is for underdeveloped RPers, one has to learn to seperate themselves from their character and not feel the same emotions as they do.
This isn't to say I haven't given my own share of OOC hate from RP in the past. As I'm sure @
Man5791 will recall, I too threw my own temper tantrum over a few issues, but I think I am the better for it. I'd like to think that Man and I are quite good friends from this.
Also, another big note of OOC hate was against the Inquisition. I'm 90% at several stages throughout Elrohir's life he was on the Inquisitions most wanted list, but I got along great with every member of the Inquisition and I still do.
TL;DR : BOLD! NO OOC HATE! GO TO YOUR ROOM! NO RP FOR A WEEK YOUNG (WO)MAN, DO YOU HEAR ME? DON'T IGNORE ME WHEN I'M TALKING TO YOU! I SPENT NINE MONTHS CARRYING YOU AROUND AND THIS IS HOW YOU REPAY ME?!?! ONCE YOU LIVE IN
THIS HOUSE, UNDER
THIS ROOF, YOU WILL PLAY WITH YOUR SIBLINGS NICELY.
-K9