So the dislike is removed but.. I just want to get a rainbow..
My serious comment:
This is a mature role-playing server and no one ever fails to mention it, however I keep feeling as we are being treated as children who can't control themselves. The "dangerous objects" are hidden away and we are being put in a foam room so we couldn't hurt each other.
I'm not presuming to know or notice every uncivilized conversation or any unjustified negative ranting and perhaps it could be a very major problems and your solution is flawless, however it does not stop here. There are many aspects both in-game or in the forum in which the players aren't trusted with. Many little things that are being prevented from everyone for the risk of it being abused by some. Things like climbing, potions and poisons, heck- even magic. All of that being taken away or heavily restricted because of the actions of some (I'm not necessarily talking about the removal of magic or climbing, just the restrictions of it). I'm sure that people were indeed abusing it, but why is heavy restriction or removal is the default solution?
Removing the dislike button is just like to treat a symptom and not the disease. We can't control how people feel but the fact is that when I've something to say, I need to face the facts that someone will dislike what I have to say (As I'm sure that people would do with this comment). And if things do escalate the perpetrators might as well be punished.
Hmmm, interesting point you got there. I wish that the answer
was to have unrestricted access to all of this stuff, but we hardly ever remove things without there having been some ... overuse. It is unfortunate that these methods have to encompass even those who were not at fault, but that's the best way I know how. I'm fairly certain that the alternatives would
also result in complaints (some more justified, and quite a bit stronger than the ones here).
And I am firmly of the opinion that increased communication (of the right kind) increases understanding, and
that is the mature response, here. Unfortunately, all attempts short of this to encourage people to discuss their reasons for ratings has met with minimal success.
Now, you use the word "mature" like it means we should be more hands off in moderating this community and implementing these policies that make you feel as if we're treating the server like children... and I quite frankly disagree. Every community has rules, and it is in part the fact that we
advertise ourselves as a mature server that motivates me. I feel a responsibility to ensuring that this server
looks like a mature community and not one composed of angry 12-year-olds. (Not saying we did before, just using some hyperbole.) And before anyone says something about how looks can be deceiving, it's difficult for an entire group of people to appear in a way that they are not. If we
look like we can solve our disagreements on the forums amicably, and reports of misconduct do not rise, then I would say that we have actually found a way to communicate effectively and solve problems amicably.
as much as i agree with som's sentiments... it feels like everything covered in bubble wrap and sanitized... look, i know that some forum on the internet are *looks to 4chan* you get the idea, i have been on some where you can get perma banned for swearing and 'negative attitudes'
i know of the intentions and that is for maturity... but when i get shouted at for saying Frak or feck (not f***, made that clear) it confuses me that this mature server locks down profanity in such a way, this is not a dig at the staff before blades are sharpened..
but i would say that a 'swearing' button may help if people are shouting as such... we are adults here (well, i'm a man-child... that counts right)
rerail; this is interesting experiment but i would like it to be permanent... for the reason i gave before.. butting head is a human reaction and we are, as everyone keep saying, human.... but hey they're just thoughts.
Let me remind you, in the specific context of swearing, that not everyone (adult or otherwise) is comfortable with language like that.
Not to mention we still accept folks as young as 14~ (13 in some really extraordinary cases.)